Chapter 172 Xiaochun’s reminder and the mentality of the three women.
Chapter 172 Xiaochun’s reminder and the mentality of the three women.
Nana lowered her voice and asked, "I heard Xia Xia say before that it seems that Xiao Hulu's father is a good person with a good temper. Could it be that he has someone else outside?"
Xie Xiaochun sneered, "If he had those two tricks, we might not be able to get a divorce..."
Nana was a little confused. What did this mean?
Looking at Nana's eyes, Xie Xiaochun explained, "When I graduated from college, I got married without thinking. At that time, Tu Luoquan was honest and had a good temper. He had a stable job and his family conditions were not bad. Both parents were very satisfied."
"After they got married and had little Hulu, Luo Quan went crazy for some reason. He quit his good job and insisted on selling water purifiers."
"The sales industry is not like that. He goes out early in the morning to do business, accompany clients, drink until he is unconscious, and then comes back to vomit all over the toilet. Every time I talk to him about it, he says he does this just to make more money so that Xiao Hulu and I can live a good life."
"With his slow personality, he is not suitable for sales. After changing jobs, he has no time to take care of the family. My parents-in-law were worried about me being alone, so they moved in with us."
"My parents-in-law chose me because of my family. My family is from the countryside, and even though my father has passed away, I still have a younger brother. So, taking care of the family is definitely not a problem. So, rather than helping me, they are just adding to my troubles. I have to take care of the children and serve my parents-in-law. At night, they come home drunk and have no time to take care of the family affairs."
"I have a bad temper, so I often quarrel with Luo Quan. He always gives in to me, but it's useless. My parents-in-law love their son, so Luo Quan doesn't say anything. My parents-in-law make trouble for me and often teach me a lesson. No matter how you turn it around, it's the same thing: men earn money outside, and it's the women's duty to take care of the family."
"I tolerated this kind of talk once or twice because he was my elder, but I couldn't tolerate it for too long and I just left him."
Nana finally understood that the main reason for Xiaochun's divorce was that Luo Quan had too good a personality and was a fence-sitter. Sometimes he thought his parents were right, and sometimes he thought his wife was right. He was always wavering, which made Xie Xiaochun feel that her husband was unreliable. She was so bullied by her father-in-law that she divorced him because she couldn't stand it.
Nana put her arm around Xie Xiaochun and comforted him, "What's past is past, but don't judge everyone by one thing. You still have to look forward and take good care of yourself and your children. You will definitely meet someone who truly understands and loves you in the future."
After hearing this, Xie Xiaochun finally realized why he had gone off topic.
"I'm fine. I'm living a fulfilling life now. I'm telling you all this because I want to tell you that you have to think carefully about finding a man. You can't just scratch a little and it looks good, but disappointment is waiting for you later."
"With so much competition in society now, which man who has the ability to make money doesn't have a temper? Xiao Chen is a good example. He has the ability to make money, is quite humorous, and has his own opinions. You know that my eldest brother rarely fails when he takes action."
Nana rolled her eyes at Xie Xiaochun in annoyance. She had misunderstood just now and thought that she was complaining to her. She thought that she was trying to persuade herself, "Things are not what you think..."
"You have to take charge of your relationship matters. No one is perfect..." Xie Xiaochun was about to give a few reminder when his cell phone rang.
"Hey, mom?"
"Xiaochun, Xia Xia took his bank card away."
"I've already told you, just let him keep his card."
"I'm just worried that he'll waste money playing games. How do you think he knows where I put my keys?"
Hearing this, Xie Xiaochun wanted to laugh. "Mom, Xiao Hulu knows where your key is, so how could he not know?"
"No, why didn't Xia Xia tell me? It's not like I wouldn't give it to him."
"How dare he tell you? You usually control him so strictly. Okay, just take it. Anyway, when you go out, you have a lot of places to spend money."
"Okay, that's okay."
Xie Xiaochun hung up the phone, thought for a while and called Xie Xiaoxia.
At this time, Xie Xiaoxia had just gotten out of Dali Airport and got into the car. Seeing that it was her sister's call, she hesitated for a moment and lowered her voice to answer: "Hello..."
"Xia Xia, I know you took the bank card. I'll transfer 3,000 yuan to you via WeChat later. Together with uncle's money, it should be enough for you to use for a while. Don't spend the money on the card recklessly, otherwise I'll worry again."
"I understand, sister..." Xie Xiaoxia felt very uncomfortable after hearing this.
Xie Xiaochun frowned and asked, "What's wrong with you? Are you sick? That voice is not right?"
Xie Xiaoxia quickly adjusted her mood, "I'm fine, I just feel a little uncomfortable and have a cold. I've already taken medicine."
"Okay, have fun over there. I'm hanging up now. I'm busy here."
Nana thought about going back and apologizing to Chen An in the evening, but Chen An had finally taken control of the initiative, so how could he give up just like that?
I stayed in the courtyard during the day. With Chen An's intervention, the pace of the comment section picked up. The black fans stopped spraying randomly and began to have a direction. Damai was so affected by the pace of the comment section that he was scared to even read the comment section, let alone write.
Chen An’s main task during the day is to comfort Da Mai and help her complete the updating task.
Although Damai is annoyed by the comment section every day, she doesn't have to worry about the daily update task. Although her mood is quite bad, she is still quite content to be with the man she likes every day. Moreover, because there is no update task and she has to get up early every day to cook for Chen An, Damai's work and rest schedule has become much more stable, and she basically goes to bed at eight o'clock every night.
Da Mai returned to the room, and Chen An went directly to the restaurant to pick up the two of them after get off work.
This is what makes Nana most uncomfortable. Ever since Chen An came, she can chat and bicker with this guy every day. Although she gets angry a lot of the time because she is tricked, she is mostly happy and feels that her life has become richer.
But for two consecutive days, this guy basically ignored her. Although he would pay attention to her when she talked to him, he no longer joked with her, teased her with sweet words, and no longer had any so-called routine, which made her very uncomfortable.
Especially when she saw him chatting happily with Hongdou, she felt even more irritated for some reason, but she had no way to vent this emotion. After all, no matter how she looked at it, it was her fault. What's more, she heard from Damai that his hands were peeling, which made her feel even more guilty and uncomfortable.
On the contrary, Xu Hongdou was in a very good mood. She helped out in the restaurant during the day, and seeing the two grandmas adapting to the rhythm more and more, she always felt a little sense of accomplishment. In the evening after get off work, she and her brother would be in the kitchen, making midnight snacks to nourish their bodies while chatting and sharing work matters. She really enjoyed the feeling of being cared for and concerned by someone.
Even her menstrual period, which used to make her irritable, didn’t seem so bad this time. She no longer had to suffer from the pain and couldn’t sleep.
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